Jealousy is most times a result of insecurities and bundled up emotions that take form in the irrational thoughts that you are cheating on her or thinking of doing it. It is a destructive force that can sour any relationship if left unresolved and needs to be addressed and worked through for the relationship to survive. Sure, sometimes a jealous woman can be cute, but only in moderation. When it goes from cute to irrational and destructive that is when it can ravage a relationship and turn your loving relationship into a nightmare.
Though the jealousy is on her part there are ways for you to avoid situations where she might become jealous. Try not to talk or look at women in her presence in a way that is anything but non-sexual. Don’t exclude her from your future plans as that can oftentimes lead to the feeling of not being good enough or unwanted by you on her part. If you have a female best friend try to get the two women to become friends, otherwise you will probably be in for a lifetime of jealousy on your girlfriend or wife’s part. And last but not least, don’t ever compare her with another woman… if you do your just asking for her jealousy to take center stage!
Because jealousy is a form of insecurity in both your relationship and her ability to keep you interested in her, that insecurity needs to be addressed for the relationship to continue in a healthy and happy way. You can’t live in a relationship where every time you talk to a woman she gets angry or every time you go out with your buddies she’s got to know exactly what you did throughout the night. Take the time to talk with her and work through her jealousy to the root of the problem. A healthy relationship is based on trust and you both need to be trusting of the other for it to survive. Reassure her that you love her, find her beautiful and that you would never cheat on her because you’re not that kind of man. Make her understand that her jealousy is endangering the relationship and figure out ways to help her deal with her issues in a way that strengthens the relationship and resolves any lingering insecurities.
For the most part jealousy is a human emotion that we all deal with at one time or another; it’s just the way it is. However, a healthy amount of jealousy is one thing and a completely irrational jealousy is another. Sometimes a jealous woman is unable to be anything but jealous and you may have to accept that her being jealous is something that you aren’t able to work through. If that is the case you need to figure out is you can continue a relationship where she is always going to be jealous of women in your life whether the threat is real or imagined.