When you think about it, it’s kind of ridiculous that men are expected to be “ready to go” for sex any and every time the opportunity strikes. It’s like telling Peyton Manning he’d better be ready to throw a touchdown any time a random fan walks up to him with a football. Sex, like anything else worth doing well, takes a little bit of focus and if you can’t quiet your mind from the rest of your work and responsibilities sex becomes a chore rather than an enjoyable activity.
The answer is actually easier than you think – and it will earn you some bonus points with your partner at the same time. Make sure foreplay is a two-person game. You’ll be surprised how quickly your partner will likely jump at the chance to take turns at massage or share in whispering erotic secrets to each other. If you're not well versed in foreplay here are a few fail save moves that will peak her interest without turning her off.
- Start Early - You don't have to wait until you're in bed to start foreplay. Find sweet ways to touch her sides, the small of her back or hold her from behind. If you're out on a date sit closely and caress her thighs.
- Take your Time - If you rush through foreplay it won't give her the opportunity to fully immerse in the act. If you really want her sexual desires to flow you have to allow her mind to take her to that sexy place.
- Slow and Sensual Kissing - Kiss her from her neck all the way down south. The slower you make your way down the more she will crave to feel your touch and can't wait for you to slider her panties down.
Probably the most important advice is to not overcomplicate your foreplay session. It can be anything that immerses your mind in the moment and allows your body and brain to both rev up to the idea of a sexual encounter. You’ll find that the experience itself is also heightened by building up a little healthy anticipation and you’ll be conditioning yourself to feel more amorous on future occasions. Not bad for a few minutes of tantalizing fun.