So maybe you’re one of those adventurous types that experiments with costumes and role playing on a regular basis... But have you considered reversing the stereotypes for some additional excitement? We’re not suggesting that guys don ladies’ lingerie but you can switch up the traditional gender roles associated with certain situations and attire. Maybe the helpless damsel in distress is more of a take-charge Joan of Arc kinda gal. Or perhaps the caveman is really a sensitive soul that needs gentle nurturing in contrast to the harsh paleo world he comes from. Besides giving new life to your role playing wardrobe, you might be surprised at the emotions and passions that emerge when pushed out of your comfort zone. It may even be that you need to get uncomfortable for a change by limiting your movement with a silk scarf, or limiting your vision with a blindfold. Test your limits and do a turn on the flip side.