Bottom Position Who Has The Power

So do you think about being on the bottom position? A lot of men still seem to think that it’s their masculine duty to be the partner “on top. Likewise, there are a lot of women who believe the same thing. But you both may find more pleasure, enjoyment, and new facets of your relationship by switching sides and being on the bottom. Men usually find that they’re able to last longer with the additional ability to focus on holding back the climax. Women find that the new angles can create greater sensations of pleasure. Both parties find that there are more opportunities for eye contact, intimate conversation, and the ability to gauge each other’s enjoyment.

Tips for being on the bottom position

On an emotional plane, women often relish the new level of control over the sexual situation. Being able to provide pleasure to her partner while also guaranteeing their own climax. Men, on the other hand, find a new kind of excitement in watching their partner’s increase in pleasure. While being on bottom in a new relaxed position that makes it seem less like “work.”

Change it up

If you are a very regimented type of guy, that’s an even better reason to change up your routine. If you stick to the same old boring positions it may leave your woman wanting for more. Maybe since you are the man of the house she may feel awkward bringing it up. But adding a little additional mattress play can go miles to show your woman you are still turned on by her and want to bring her extra pleasure.

Let her go cowgirl: bottom position

The woman on top “cowgirl” position may not be too new for most people. If you already enjoy this position there is still room to make it hotter. Try the “reverse cowgirl” which is pretty much the same but have her facing backwards. This allows her to really take control and you can focus on her “assets.” There is also the “easy glider” where she lays flat on top of you belly to belly, allowing for more of a full body rub. Another great position with her on top is “the catcher” where she sits on top and moves her feet forward to where they are planted on the bed this let’s her use her legs to move up and down easier all while hitting new pleasure points.

Bring it up first in sexy conversation: bottom position

To suggest the idea to your partner, talk about it beforehand. While some people may be receptive to the idea of switching positions once already engaged, for others, it can ruin the mood. So bringing it up before heading to the bedroom ensures you don’t interrupt the experience. If your partner is unsure, explain your motivation. If you want to be able to admire her body more, say so. Thinking it will bring her more pleasure, let her know that too. Or, if you’re interested in exploring something new and adding another dimension to your life (without necessarily complaining about your existing life), that’s okay too.