For most men sex is on the brain quite frequently throughout the day, while women think about sex quite a bit less. This can be a problem when men are in the mood and women aren’t. So how do you change that… by helping to get her in the mood in subtle ways that get her ready for a tumble in the sheets. Take a look at these 4 ways to make her horny tonight that will get her in the mood without begging and pleading on your part.
Instead of just jumping into the act of trying to make her horny and all worked up and ready to go, wine and dine her body and mind first. Use your touch, your lips and tongue, and your words to excite her. Caress her sensitive places like the curve of her neck or the spot behind her ears that she loves to be kissed. Whisper in her ear and tell her she’s beautiful, that her body makes you sit up and beg. Lead her towards the sex like it’s your first time together all over again.
For many women porn in the form that appeals most to men doesn’t do much for them… they want a little sensuality and romance to go along with their sex. So you need to curb your porn habits and find women-friendly porn and erotica books that will stoke her fire and yours at the same time.
Why not use her secret fantasies to get her in the mood? Maybe there’s a certain fantasy she’s been hinting at for weeks about her being a stern dominatrix and you being her slave or that fantasy of being a lowly scullery maid and you being the master of the house who seduces her into your bed. Sometimes a little fantasy play can be just the ticket towards getting a woman horny and ready for sex who might otherwise have begged off with a headache or just saying she’s not in the mood.
Sometimes bringing a new addition to the bedroom may be the right choice to make her horny. Whether it is a vibrator, handcuffs, silk ropes or something else, adding a little spice and variety will put a whole new spin on your bedroom activities. Use the toys to tease her, caress her and bring new forms of pleasure that you might have steered clear of before because of time constraints, fears or the like.
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